HOW TO EVALUATE YOUR LIFE

How can I evaluate my life and build the things that to change it? We always think about either the past or the future. We have worried about the future or we have fear about past unwanted happening in our life. The fear of rehappening the unwanted scene of life again and again. Fear of the unknown. Here we have to evaluate our life. It depends upon many things. It depends upon totally our personal values and goals in our life. If we want to change our life then we need to include new values purposely in them.

The truth is you don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow. Life is a crazy ride and nothing is guaranteed

Brainy Quote

The most important thing is that everyone should be honest with themselves when they look at both aspects of life positively as well as negatively. One common thing is that both are important as both are complementary to solving problems or any situation in life. Positive thinking gives power to our life and negative thinking sock the power of our life, Add value to your life by thinking in the right direction.

As we know direction is essential to reach the destination. If we move with great efforts in opposite direction then we never meet our goals in life. Life is made up of all mixed scenes of different tastes. Sometimes it may sweet, sour, bitter, or hot but altogether it makes life meaningful to live in.

Here are the ways which help you to evaluate the life

Everyone has always a question, ” Who am I? What is the purpose of my life? Why I am here on this earth?” We used to think about our achievements in life. We have always planned life. Some have plans ready with proper planning and some have plans in the air. The people have perfect planning to achieve their goals. They have achieved goals related to job, career, and property, to reach at a particular position.

It would be best if you thought about the planning which we had. What kind of goal did we achieve? They make us feel proud and used to say to us’ am proud of you.”

What are the things which we feel too proud of? Is that what we achieve really gives this feeling of pride in your life? Whether that is family members, relations, status social as well as professionals.

The next most important is relationship. Consider whether your relationships are fulfilling and supportive. Do they contribute to your overall well-being? How is your relationship help you to make decisions? Do you have a clear idea of your partner’s feeling moods? Do you have the same vision and goals in life? All these are very much important to build your life.

If your life partner trusts you, you can handle your finances well. For that you both need to sit down together and work on the budget for your family. Managing budget smoothly depending upon content. As both must have agreed on the need and fulfilled it then life and the process of decision-making for finances are balanced and it helps to reduce anxiety.

We need to understand the emotions of each other. If you know your partner is sensitive to and agree to do your best to avoid stepping in each other’s emotional pot-holes, it helps to build a trusting relationship. In life kids and family, jobs and careers, and money are very important. Clarity must be there what is important for you? Our visions and goals are likely to change over the period but you must have to express your dreams and hopes without fear. If you can do so then your life is full of joy and bliss.

Take a review of stock of your personal growth. Sometimes sit in a peaceful mood and think about how you have grown and changed as a person over time. According to new research, your personality changes over time. It is perfectly normal. People have certain expectations.

Certain traits have stuck with you for your entire life. even though it is true that your personality has changed over the years is to compare your present self to your past self. This kind of shift may be temporary or it can be a permanent transformation. Take a look back at your life in a five years gap. Many have happened in the past. But you have to look at it strangely. Find the mistakes that have to avoid in the future.

You should have to evaluate your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. You need to check out what needs to take care of more. Much Emotional well-being refers to the awareness and understanding a person has about emotions and how well they are able to manage through different life events and cope with them throughout life. You need to keep in mind that the physical body is affected by our emotions, our thoughts direct how we feel and our energy level sways our mind and our thoughts. To keep all in harmony you must need a slight change in your lifestyle.

After reviewing many areas of life you need to focus now on your values and goals which you have and have set up in the past. Think about it very deeply while achieving your goals do your actions align with your values? Are you really making progress toward your long-term goals and aspirations? Suppose you want to go to any post at that time do your actions not hurt or it must not take any other’s rights?

We will not be delighted in life unless we are fully engaged in our part of fulfilling God’s greatest mission, the Great Commission.

There are three main ingredients for the Christain to be spiritually satisfied

• The will of GOD
• The work of GOD
• The witness of God.

Conclusion: Life is moving ahead with the passing of every minute. It is important to keep in mind that evaluating your life is an ongoing process. It is normal ups and downs in life. The key aspect is, to be honest with yourself. Believe in God, and his planning, and remember he is always looking at you and witnessing your all deeds. These tools you have to use to evaluate and make positive changes in your life.